The guy I lost mine to my bf is a hottie, 10 years older and definetely experienced. What should I do? It is normal to feel insecure or unconfident about your body. If my partner is gentle and slow, will there still be pain? Urinating before sex can alleviate this sensation. MF Marisol Figueroa Jul 23, A lot of people grow up being taught sex is shameful, should be reserved for marriage, and is only to be experienced between a man and a woman.
Of course, now I get all fancied up for him, but manly for me.
How do I prepare for losing my virginity?
If you are scared of pain, read the article for tips. If that's not an issue, you can also learn to relax your Vag inside by inserting fingers and then letting loose like you are about to pee pee first so you don't so he can enter more easily. If you feel like tonight is not "the night," don't be ashamed to wait. Not Helpful 22 Helpful Male or female condoms and another form of birth control strongly recommended. A Anonymous Dec 18,